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Thursday, July 06, 2006

Searching for Soul Mate

Tick… tock…. Tick… tock… I can hear the clock ticking. It’s 3 am in the morning and yet I can’t sleep. I don’t know why. My mind just refused to shut down. There are so many things in my head right now.

I was having a conversation with one of my girlfriends over msn messenger not too long ago. She asked, “Does soul mate exist?” I was numb once again. “Yes” was the answer that I gave her. Soul mate does exist; it’s just whether we are lucky enough to find one. However, the ultimate question to answer here is that how do you know when you have found yours?

She really strikes me. What’s the meaning of soul mate? According to Longman dictionaries, soul means part of a person that is not the body and is thought not to die. While mate means friend or person one works or lives with. So “soul mate” would mean someone that will always be with you not only physically but mentally or spiritually no matter what happens till the end of time?

Actually soul mate can mean many things. These are soul that you have experience with in the past, present and future lives. Soul mate can have various types of relationships, which do not always include romantic love. Your friend can be your soul mate, your parents, grandparents or even your brothers and sisters.

Soul mate is someone who will be there to support you, lift you up when you are down and catch you when you fall. Stand by you no matter what happens and protect you whenever you needed one. Soul mate is one who believes in you when you have ceased to believe in yourself. Soul mate will helps you to become the best person you can be and silence is comfortable when you have nothing to say to each other.

However, we need to draw a line between soul mate and partner. This is because for soul mate, you can tell him/her anything but to your partner, there are things that you can’t tell. In addition to that, you can have more than one soul mate but you can’t have more than one partner. Hmm… literally.

We have come to a conclusion that soul mate will be the one who is always there for us and to make us feel complete. Like the saying, “You complete me” by Tom Cruise. On top of that, soul mate often comes together to work on common interests, share the same frequency and to complement each other on reverse roles.

So, don’t waste your time searching because you will know when you have found yours. The little voice in your heart will tell you. Treasure what you have now and go out to have a good night out with your friends. As for yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery but today is a gift. That’s why it is call “present”.

4 Comments:

  • At 4:57 am, Blogger Ti-Lyn said…

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  • At 5:11 am, Blogger Ti-Lyn said…

    Bravo.. definitely what we were on about that day.. Sorry the conversation kept you up all night tho! Didn't mean it to happen that way! But it was a very interesting conversation.. will have to have more of those soon! :) Take care sweetie! Chat soon..
    xx

     
  • At 1:31 am, Blogger Ti-Lyn said…

    Something interesting I stumbled upon.. thought you might like to have a read of it:

    "Soul Mates and Twin Flames are not the same thing. Soul Mates are other souls that have agreed to connect with you on this planet for a purpose. In some cases it is to clear up karma, in other cases it is to finish unfinished business, and for some it is to accomplish a particular goal together. These relationships may be
    a joy to be in or these relationships may be a pain in your life. Either way they are here for a reason.

    When Soul Mates first meet they sometimes feel as if they already know each other. They may feel very familiar to each other. Soul Mates can have a beautiful relationship together, but it will take work. Soul Mate relationships may last a lifetime and others may only be for a particular purpose and be temporary. You can have more than one Soul Mate in a lifetime.

    Twin Flames are very different and very rare. Twin Flames are two people in two separate bodies that share the same Soul. Twin Flames meet each other in their first incarnation so that they remember the soul frequency of the other being. They are then usually reunited on their last time to this planet. If Twin Flames meet before they are ready they can be the total opposite and not at all compatible. When Twin Flames meet and are ready for each other, it is the most enjoyable experience possible on Earth.

    At this point, Twin Flames are almost identical. They truly compliment each other and it is a hardship for them to be apart. As an outside observer it is sometimes hard to distinguish the two people. They also have a very strong bond and often have telepathy with each other. Their lives even before meeting each
    other have many parallels. Again, meeting your Twin Flame is very rare on this planet."

    So what do you reckon? Perhaps we should find out more about this 'twin flame' thing!

    xx

     
  • At 6:55 pm, Blogger Jooey said…

    wow.. ok.. yes, we should look for more information on this twin flame. Sounds new to me. He he he

     

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