Tempted Heart
Have you ever been tempted to go back? Yes, remembered love that's what I called. For all you know, those wonderful memories came rushing back with intimate moments and romantic giggles and chuckles between two of you. Ah… you go back, and it feels magnificent for a short while but hang on… what is going on? Are you having a delusion or is this for real? Is going back a sensible decision to make?
It does always feel good to go back to the known because a huge dive into the unidentified gulf seems scary. Yes, I can’t refute that the grass always looks greener on the other side. However, memories though beautiful and soothing will still remain memories. Eventually, you will wake up and face the reality as you remembered why it was over.
Welcome to the world of alluring ex. Many has been said and done, yet, still some can’t resists the temptation of their ex. Based on some of my readings, you need to be sure of what you want before going back. Revisit the reasons why it didn’t work out in the first place before hopping on the bandwagon again. It might be just a spur of the moment or it might be “back for good” this time. No one can tell you what to do next except for yourself.
If you think of going back is what you want, well, by all means just do it. Not a soul is going to block you or say anything. Alright even if people did comment on something, why bother? It’s your life anyway. You are the one who is going to spend the rest of your lives with that person. Not them! Just remember that you are the one who is going to taste the fruits of your very own actions regardless whether it’s good or bad. On second thought, what if the relationship fails again? Tough luck and live with your gut decision. I know it’s hard. But, no one is going to point their fingers on you. But if it turns out good, well done! So, there is no need to worry too much of what will happen in the future as a result of the choice you make today. All that you need to do is to make the best decision out of all the information available in your hands right now. I am certain things will be fine.
Or perhaps you have better suggestions?
Have you ever been tempted to go back? Yes, remembered love that's what I called. For all you know, those wonderful memories came rushing back with intimate moments and romantic giggles and chuckles between two of you. Ah… you go back, and it feels magnificent for a short while but hang on… what is going on? Are you having a delusion or is this for real? Is going back a sensible decision to make?It does always feel good to go back to the known because a huge dive into the unidentified gulf seems scary. Yes, I can’t refute that the grass always looks greener on the other side. However, memories though beautiful and soothing will still remain memories. Eventually, you will wake up and face the reality as you remembered why it was over.
Welcome to the world of alluring ex. Many has been said and done, yet, still some can’t resists the temptation of their ex. Based on some of my readings, you need to be sure of what you want before going back. Revisit the reasons why it didn’t work out in the first place before hopping on the bandwagon again. It might be just a spur of the moment or it might be “back for good” this time. No one can tell you what to do next except for yourself.
If you think of going back is what you want, well, by all means just do it. Not a soul is going to block you or say anything. Alright even if people did comment on something, why bother? It’s your life anyway. You are the one who is going to spend the rest of your lives with that person. Not them! Just remember that you are the one who is going to taste the fruits of your very own actions regardless whether it’s good or bad. On second thought, what if the relationship fails again? Tough luck and live with your gut decision. I know it’s hard. But, no one is going to point their fingers on you. But if it turns out good, well done! So, there is no need to worry too much of what will happen in the future as a result of the choice you make today. All that you need to do is to make the best decision out of all the information available in your hands right now. I am certain things will be fine.
Or perhaps you have better suggestions?
posted by Jooey @ 6:21 pm
3 Comments:
At 1:20 am,
Ti-Lyn said…
If it didn't work the first time.. chances are it will not work the second time. Just my own thoughts. There's always a reason why a r/ship did not work in the first instance.. so why put yourself through all the heartache again?
xx
At 5:50 am,
Ti-Lyn said…
Yup.. it's not even about the risk. It's about the pure and simple fact that you cannot change a person's personality. It's useless to try. If you cannot accept the person for who they are.. there is someone out there who can. So why be selfish and try to keep a r/ship that is only average when they could find the love of their life? Likewise, you can find the love of your lifetime too..
Just my thoughts.. :)
At 9:10 pm,
Jooey said…
Hi girls, thanks for the feedback.
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